Staying safe when you meet someone new

Take your time

Talk for a while before you meet. Notice whether their story stays consistent, and be wary of anyone who rushes you, avoids simple questions or pushes to move the conversation somewhere else quickly.

Protect what you share

Keep your pseudonym and your blurred photos until you trust someone. Do not share your home address, workplace or financial details, and never send money to someone you have not met, whatever the reason given.

Meet somewhere public

• Choose a public place for the first meeting.
• Tell a friend where you are going and who with.
• Arrange your own way there and back.
• Keep your phone charged and your drinks in sight.

Trust your instincts

If something feels wrong, leave. You do not owe anyone an explanation.

Block and report

You can block or report anyone from their profile or your conversation. A block hides you from each other without telling them, and reports are reviewed by our team. Pressure for money, threats and blackmail are against our rules and will lead to removal.